Friday, January 20, 2023

"The Inquiry About Forgiveness" (Matt. 18:21)

 

SPIRITUAL DIARY FOR 1/20/2023 9:50 AM

 

My Worship Time                                                          Focus:  “The Inquiry About Forgiveness”

 

Bible Reading & Meditation                                                    Reference:  Matthew 18:21

 

            Message of the verse:  21 Then Peter came up and said to him, "Lord, how often will my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? As many as seven times?’”

 

            It is true that Peter at times opened his mouth but on many occasions he put his foot into it, but some of the questions that he had asked Jesus truly help us in learning some very important things, and this surely is one of those occasions.

 

            I have to believe that Peter knew human nature and how many times people need forgiveness, and often for the same offence.  A person can sin against another person, seek forgiveness, and then a little while later do the same thing and need forgiveness again.

 

            MacArthur writes:  “In light of Jesus’ teaching about discipline in the church, Peter wondered how many times Christians as a body and as individuals were obliged to forgive fellow believers who persisted in wrongdoing.  How many times should they be allowed to repent and be restored to fellowship?”  We will get the answer to this question as we continue looking at this section of Scripture.

 

            We learned in the previous sections about discipline, and this included both direct and indirect offenses.  Believers are to rebuke a sinning brother or sister for any sin, and I think that this has much to do with consistent offenses against a brother or sister.  We learned the process, or steps of what to do when this happens in the section on discipline, and so I will not go over them again.  It is good to remember that every sin a person commits is a sin against God.  Let me give you a verse from David’s writing of Psalm 51, a Psalm that was penned after his sin against Bathsheba, and her husband.  “4 Against You, You only, I have sinned And done what is evil in Your sight, So that You are justified when You speak And blameless when You judge.” Now I want to give two verses that our Lord said:  3 “Be on your guard! If your brother sins, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4 "And if he sins against you seven times a day, and returns to you seven times, saying, ‘I repent,’ forgive him.’”  MacArthur adds “The commands to rebuke and to forgive cover any sin a fellow believer may commit, not just those committed directly against us.”

 

            Peter personalized Jesus’ teaching, and his primary concern at this time was about his own responsibility, as he then asked, “Lord, how often shall my brother sin against me and I forgive him?”

 

            MacArthur writes “Throughout the discourse of chapter 18, Jesus was speaking about believers, whom He refers to as little ones, children, sheep, and brothers (vv. 3-6, 10, 12, 14, 15).  From his reference to my brother, it is clear that Peter also was thinking about a believer, represented by himself, forgiving other believers.”  This is an important point that MacArthur brings up for us to know.

            In the beginning I wrote about Peter’s questions and stated that because of his questions we can learn many things from the Lord, whom he was asking these questions.  I believe it is true that God blesses those who ask sincere questions of Him, because He blesses those who sincerely seek to know Him and His truth. Jeremiah wrote about this in 29:13 “You will seek Me and find Me when you search for Me with all your heart.”

 

            Perhaps the question that Peter was asking, which was “Does forgiveness have a limit?” is a question that we may have ask on occasions when believers have sinned against us on different occasions, and in my opinion this happens in our families many times.

 

            It seems that when Peter said “seven times” that he thought that he was being generous and perhaps thought that Jesus would be surprised at this number of times he would be willing to forgive a brother.  In Jewish tradition three times was the number of times a person would forgive another, and so Peter was actually doubling it and adding one more.  There are a number of verses in the book of Amos to see this and one also related to this in Job.  (Amos 1:3, 6, 9, 11, 13; and Job 33:29 are the verses, and I will leave it up to you to look them up.)  MacArthur writes that “the rabbis had taken a repeated statement by God against neighboring enemies of Israel and made it into a universal rule for limiting God’s forgiveness and, by extension, also man’s.  If God forgives men only three times, they spuriously reasoned, it is unnecessary and even presumptuous for men to forgive each other more times than that.  Rabbi Jose ben Hanina, for instance, said, ‘He who begs forgiveness from his neighbor must not do so more than three times.’  Rabbi Jose ben Jehuda said, ‘If a man commits an offense once, they forgive him; if he commits an offense a second time, they forgive him; if he commits an offense a third time, they forgive him; the fourth time they do not forgive him.’”

 

            From this paragraph we just quoted from we can see where Peter must have gotten his information from, and as stated he probably thought that he was being generous in doubling it and adding one more.

 

            Spiritual meaning for my life today:  “23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; Try me and know my anxious thoughts; 24 And see if there be any hurtful way in me, And lead me in the everlasting way” (Ps. 139:23-24).

 

My Steps of Faith for Today:  Stay very close to the Lord each and every day in order that I don’t sin against anyone.

 

1/20/2023 10:36 AM

 

 

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