Sunday, May 21, 2017

PT-2 A Word to Husbands (Col. 3:19)


SPIRITUAL DIARY FOR 5/21/2017 8:16 PM

My Worship Time                                                                  Focus:  PT-2 A Word to Husbands

Bible Reading & Meditation                                     Reference:  Colossians 3:19

            Message of the verses:  “19 Husbands, love your wives and do not be embittered against them.”

            I want to begin this SD by looking at the word “embittered” in the Greek/English dictionary. 

“1) to make bitter

1a) to produce a bitter taste in the stomach

2) to embitter. exasperate

2a) render angry, indignant

2b) to be embittered, irritated

2c) to visit with bitterness, to grieve (deal bitterly with)

            We can see from this definition the things that husbands are not to do to their wives.  Now in our last SD we looked at Ephesians 5:22-28 and so I am not going to put those verses on this SD but we will talk a bit about them now.

            These verses in Ephesians go into more detain of what the duties of the husband and wife have for each other, and there are actually more verses that speak to what the husband is to do for the wife than what the wife has for the husband, and I think that is because of the leadership role that the husband has in the home.  The key to the husband actions for his wife is love and love is not some kind of feeling, but love is giving someone something that they can never earn or get for themselves.

            John MacArthur concludes this section on husbands with the following:  “Paul adds another helpful note when, in 1 Corinthians 7:33-34, he calls for a mutual concern in marriage.  The husband is to seek to find ‘how he may please his wife,’ and the wife to pursue ‘how she may please her husband.’  Though there is authority and submission by God’s design, there is also spiritual equality and mutual longing for each partner to please the other.  The woman most pleases the man with loving submission, while he pleases her with loving authority.”

5/21/2017 8:33 PM

 

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