Friday, April 3, 2020

Improper Mourning (Matt. 5:4)


SPIRITUAL DIARY FOR 4/3/2020 11:15 AM

My Worship Time                                                                                Focus:  Improper Mourning

Bible Reading & Meditation                                                 Reference:  Matthew 5:4

            Message of the verses:  4 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”

            You may remember that in our last SD that we looked at a preview of the things that we will be looking at as we go through this section of Scripture guided by some of the things that are written in John MacArthur’s commentary.  We are going to look at some of the things that Jesus meant from this verse and some of the things that He did not mean as we look through a series of main-sections and sub-sections from the main sections.  The first section we will be introducing today is “The Meaning of Mourning” and then we will look at the first sub-section “Improper Mourning.”

            I will quote the introduction from MacArthur’s commentary on this first main section “The Meaning of Mourning.”  “Certain kinds of sorrow are common to all mankind, experienced by believer and unbeliever alike.  Some of those sorrows are normal and legitimate, sorrows which concern the Lord and for which He knows our need.  Others are abnormal and illegitimate, brought about solely because of sinful passions and objectives.”  So now we move on to talk about improper mourning.

            I don’t really like to bring about politics into my Spiritual Diaries but when I look at what the meaning of improper mourning there is a good example in America politics that has been going on for three years as a certain party has never gotten over the people’s choice of who is our President and so they continue to scheme to try and over through the 2016 election in a number of illegal ways and when they fail they most assuredly mourn over their lost efforts.  This is improper mourning.  To those who mourn in these improper ways the Lord gives no help or solace.

            An example from Scripture is the story of David’s son Amnon “2 Amnon was so frustrated because of his sister Tamar that he made himself ill, for she was a virgin, and it seemed hard to Amnon to do anything to her.  We see here that Amnon’s grief was caused by incestuous, unfulfilled lust.

            I can only realize from seeing this happen and that is that when a person’s mate dies, even a Christian’s mate dies that there are times when they are so distressed that it will ruin the remainder of their lives.  If the Lord allows a person’s mate to come home to be with Him that has to be in His will and thus after a time of mourning that person moves on.  Some will re-marry; some will go on and continue to do things for the Lord.  I have a friend of mine, who really was not a close friend that lost his wife three years ago tomorrow.  The Lord laid upon my heart to pray very diligently for him which I did and even wrote letters to him.  Mike knew of my prayers for him and was thankful.  My prayers to the Lord were that he would begin to write again as he posts something daily on the internet and then my prayers for him would be also that he would go out and begin to speak again as he was a retired Pastor.  The Lord graciously answered my prayers and today Dr. Mike is filling in at a church near us who has lost their pastor.  Yesterday I wrote a note to him telling him that I still think of him and pray for him many times during the week.

            Now going back to the story about Amnon as this story continues to develop we find Amnon rapping his half sister and then his love turned into hate, really his lust turned into hate.  Her brother Absalom eventually killed Amnon and then ran away.  David finally allows him to return and eventually Absalom tries to take over the kingdom and actually runs David out of Jerusalem.  A war begins and Absalom is eventually killed.  All of this to say that David heavily mourns over the lost of Absalom so much that he wishes himself dead over Absalom.  Joab finally rebuked the king in saying “5 Then Joab came into the house to the king and said, "Today you have covered with shame the faces of all your servants, who today have saved your life and the lives of your sons and daughters, the lives of your wives, and the lives of your concubines, 6 by loving those who hate you, and by hating those who love you. For you have shown today that princes and servants are nothing to you; for I know this day that if Absalom were alive and all of us were dead today, then you would be pleased.”  MacArthur adds “The wickedly ambitious Absalom had raised a rebel army, driven the king—his own father—out of Jerusalem, and taken over the palace.

            “David’s love for his son was understandable, but his judgment had been perverted.  Probably because of his great feeling of guilt for having been such a poor father, and because he knew that Absalom’s tragedy was part of the judgment God sent because of David’s adulterous and murderous affair with Bathsheba, the kings’ mourning over Absalom was abnormal.  The judgment that came on Absalom was entirely deserved.”  As you think about this  a bit more we can understand that if Absalom would have won then the very happy time that David received from the Lord about always having a man on the throne, including the Messiah would then not have happened.

            Spiritual meaning for my life today:  It is important to me to understand the right things that I am to mourn over, and that does not always mean that a person has to die to mourn over something.  I can also say that because of the age of my recently passed father-in-law that I have had trouble mourning over his death.  I struggle with that to this day.

My Steps of Faith for Today:  Continue to learn more about contentment, humility, and mourning along with having joy over the studying of the Word of God.   

4/3/2020 12:07 PM

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